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Birthday Reflections…Lessons…and Projections


July is the BEST month! Not only is the weather great, longer time with sun, and beach waves- I was born! Came to this earth to really brighten up your world boo!! Haha! My birthday was yesterday, July 28 and what a wonderful day it is. Every year during the week of my birthday, I always have a moment to myself to reflect. I like to process all that I have done and what I truly plan to look forward to as I continue to live. I have to be honest and say that I wasn't always like this, I'm actually starting something different this year. Do you sometimes get a little sad or discouraged during your bday? Or maybe sometimes think of all the things you don't have or didn't do? That was truly my story for yeaaarrrsssss and it would rob me of fully investing the joy I was experiencing that day. Yes, I would be so happy with my day, but any quiet moment I had, would be spent ruminating of lack, a full scarcity mindset, and this year I said no. It never felt good when I would do that and I wanted change, change that can stay with me. I want to focus on abundance in full capacity, I'm just grateful that I'm still here to activate this way of thinking. I decided that a great way to start, is to think of my reflections, lessons and projecting what I want in my life. I want to focus on what will come to me, vs what didn't YET!



I have had so many reflections this past year. One of the main reflections was thinking how far I have come from last year through today. I was very certain that I was not going to return to the blog or podcast, because of the pain I have experienced. I was concerned about me missing my mark, the time I took to get well emotionally and if I would ever experience certain experiences in life. I continued to question if it was too late, did I take too much time? Daily I would ponder these thoughts, and recently I heard a saying that really stuck with me. "Accomplishments has no age." I loveee this because it's completely true! There is no time for anything, just your time. It is still going to feel amazing when you do accomplish what you want. The only task you have is to be open to receive it, a strong willingness to not give up, and expecting what you want with joy.



"Imperfect consistency is always better than perfect inconsistency." Now this is a major lesson that I have learned! I have a perfectionist attitude and want to get everything right before I start, but what that does is delay my opportunities, and limit what I could really be exposed to. As soon as I confirmed that I was going to come back to STGG, my goal was to be consistent and get the work done! God was speaking to me in so many ways to come back, I had to listen and put action in. I always try my best to make everything luxurious for you ( and you know I do!) but I understand not everything will be perfect and that's ok!!! This shift in mindset has allowed me to be in a place to take more risks and also give myself more grace. This is all new for me and I am still learning as I go, but I have so many ideas to share that can touch someone. Why would I limit my ability to reach you because of having everything together? The message is way more important to me than a slight error! Im leaning in on being softer with myself and deepening my why to continue to service you , simply because...I know that this is my purpose.



What do I really want in this life? I always think about what I want to accomplish and what will sustain my joy. I strongly believe in the power of words and writing everything down. As stated earlier, I'm doing something different this year and want to pivot with ease. I am very orderly , but I'm learning that not everything will happen as planned, and there is ALWAYS a solution, once you breathe and clear your mind. It's hard to make a great decision with stress. We need a peaceful setting in our hearts to really get what we want! When I thought about what I wanted, I thought about how projections are used in business. A projection is defined as: an estimate or forecast of a future situation or trend based on a study of present ones. Based on the work you are presently doing, you can most certainly forecast only wonderful things to come right? It is our business to get it all! Based on what we are doing, plan to do or have done! Even if you just started working on yourself and your mindset, it will be one step closer to where you want to go. One of my projections is success and exposure for STGG, brand deals, speaking engagements, creating my own event, and making a full time income doing something I love. I project I will touch many people, and they will inspired and fired up to be and do better. I project a love from my husband that is God-fearing, safe, warm, reliable, loving, patient, and touches my soul. Someone that is my best friend and releases anxiety because his emotions are AVAILABLE 24/7. I project success for my friends and family, love, health, and unexpected big surprises. I project amazing accomplishments for you! Healing, growth and unlimited success in all that you desire. If we really gonna manifest, might as well be detailed right?! Just great things happening in life overall, I'm looking forward to it and I can genuinely say...that I'm excited.


To hear additional reflections, lessons and projections that I share, take a listen to the latest episode:

Birthday Reflections...Lessons...and Projections, and the beauty about this episode is that it's timeless! Yes it is my birthday, but you can also get value from this as well! You can listen to this even if it's not your birthday, some great things to ponder to shift your perspective as half the year is done! We still have time for change! If it is your birthday, I challenge you to fully immerse yourself with joy, take time to be present and celebrate yourself! We have so much to look forward to and thankfully we are blessed to have another year to see everything flourish.


Thank you for your support and listening to the savethegoodgirl podcast. The biggest gift you have given me is your support and your progress. Please share with someone who can benefit from the blog and podcast! Let's continue to confirm and believe that we will get the life we have always dreamed of. We will!


🎉Happy Birthday To Me and To You!!!🎉



What will you try next for your bday?

  • 0%Reflecting On The Year

  • 0%Think of Lessons

  • 0%Manifest All That I Want

  • 0%Changing Mindset To Focus On Joy


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